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A Heart-Based Online Guided Program

– improve how you deal with challenges, relationships, self-care, quality of life –

– discover what may be holding you back, move towards healing and reach your potential –

See, feel, do, differently

Find your Self, Find your Way Guided Online Program

This program aims to equip you for future challenges, whilst maintaining your self-care, contribution and authenticity. You are provided a safe space to reflect, learn, practice, develop and grow at your own pace to reach your potential

  • provides an ongoing journey of discovery to uncover what may be limiting your life
  • provides alternatives to better equip you for the future
  • 6 powerful online learning modules designed with flexibility to suit your schedules
  • each step provides concepts, actions/ practices, guided videos and audio options
  • access to monthly drop-in Zoom guiding sessions
  • your own personal membership login to the secure RTHB platform
  • lifelong access to provide support in the future as needed
  • our platform provides safe space to immerse in the online program without pop ups and adverts etc
  • opportunities to make comment and communicate on the user platform
  • access to other (free) options (incl. podcasts, online zoom events and opportunities to be involved in community projects
  • discover more about you and what life offers
  • heal some deep hurts
  • better adapt to change
  • improve relationships and quality of life
  • make choices, express your feelings and wants
  • reach your potential
  • settle your busy mind and feel more present
  • feel less concerned with how others see you
  • engage more in what matters and feel happier
Chien shares her experience of the
Heart-Based Approach/

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Chrissie shares her experience of the Heart-Based Approach:

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This online guided program/resource provides the journey for you to work on yourself including growth and development. Note: The price includes lifetime access โ€“ for stages and challenges in life.

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Personal support sessions to work through a specific issue, as well as supporting you through the program, can be purchased in the shop after adding this program to the cart.

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The directors, Tricia and Nigel, share more about the
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  • Questionnaire: where are you now and what have you noticed?
  • Appendix – Research and statistics behind the program
  • Module 1
    • Foundations and themes that underpin the approach
    • Heart-based vs mind-based
    • Wants and not-wants
    • Self-care; what does it really look and feel like?
    • How does deep change really happen?
  • Module 2
    • Discover your senses and feel your heart
    • Tuning in on a deep and intuitive level
  • Module 3
    • Discovering the rules, behaviours, habits and patterns that maybe limiting you
    • Discovering your unique self
  • Module 4
    • Being all of you HMBS
    • Relating and adapting in real time – in moments when it matters
  • Module 5
    • Moving through stages, changes and challenges
  • Module 6
    • Life vision and choices
    • Ongoing practice, improvement and working on the self

There is a strong body of research behind this program and approach, which is shared in the program appendix. It includes heart coherence where positive emotions can lead to improved functioning of the whole self (heart, mind, body, spirit). The program is designed to bring positive emotions to you.

It is worth noting that any community statistics will be represented in organisations also to a certain extent, which can be an indication of what people bring with them to work eg mental health, domestic abuse, self-harm, drug/alcohol use etc. This program can help with people working on themselves.

The program also draws upon your lived experience which is your reality and so important to observe and value. This is how you know that things are improving and getting better for you.

Questionnaires and reflections throughout the program – which when coupled with how you feel makes up your personal evidence

The intention is to:

Find your Self:
connect with your heart, feelings, senses and intuition

Find your Way:
discover your freedom, purpose, path and passions

In your Life:
become your true, caring self, in more moments and situations

Real Time Heart-Based (RTHB) provides programs, community projects and events and support/guidance. It was co-founded by Tricia LaBella and Nigel Stedman, who share a mission to help everyone find their hearts and experience their authentic selves bringing lasting peace and inner contentment. While their journey led them on different challenges and paths, they come together at this stage of their life, with this common vision. Based upon research and universal laws, they bring their lived experiences to share this unique Heart-Based LivingTM approach for people to find their way. They, too, continue with their own practice for ongoing improvement in all aspects of their lives.

About Tricia:

‘I have experience in many industries including counselling, fitness, coaching, education and wellbeing and this combined with my personal life situations, including a cancer diagnosis in 2006, and life journey as a parent and grand-parent, has helped me to discover a simple truth about feeling truly happy and successful.’

About Nigel:

‘While I have arrived here with a range of work and professional experience in leadership, governance in organisations and business, it has been through my own personal life and journey as a parent that I have discovered what really matters and makes a difference to my own wellbeing and happiness.’

‘Together, we see how moment by moment heart-based practices and caring choices, although small and simple, play the most significant role in underpinning and creating helpful new directions for ourselves, systems, governments, communities, and industries. Our warm regards Tricia and Nigel’

Written Testimonials

โ€œThe biggest discovery, have been the rules I have been upholding, without realising the limitations I have discovered to listen to my heart and express my feelings.

I liked the dynamic between Nigel and Tricia and I felt heard and supported, with no judgementโ€ (BF)

โ€œI feel more confident to say when I don’t feel I can manage to do something and to take things slower but be more present.

Thank you for your support and wisdom!โ€ (KY)

โ€œIโ€™ve discovered that my priorities need to be adjusted. I feel I’ve gained more insight into why I often feel overwhelmed.

I have very much appreciated and enjoyed the face-to-face sessions with Tricia and Nigelโ€ (PM)

โ€œI have discovered to listen to my heart, express my feelings, do conscious choices in my life. The most important: do what do you want to do with love.

I‘m impressed with the results of this program.” (MR)

โ€œMore conscious of panic/racing thoughts. Being aware, practice There is so much out there to learn. Feeling much better, more content and slowing down my mind.

With my heartfelt gratitude to you both, very uplifting for me.โ€ (CC)

More content. Opening my vision for the better, for me. To be more active. To actually do what I feel. Open my horizon to expand my day. To be stronger to make my own decisions.

From when I began the program till now I feel much better in myself.”  (CC)

โ€œLooking at beliefs and rules I have created for myself was very valuable. The program and choices helped me to stay in the present and not think too far ahead in life.

Thanks again, your program really got me moving on thingsโ€ (MH)

โ€œClearer focus on my priorities and making efforts to start exploring new ideas and  putting them into place. I am maintaining my fitness and equilibrium and reminder that my passions feed me!

Thank you Tricia and Nigelโ€ (LF)

โ€œTry to work out my limits and become more active in the things that I enjoy and have energy for. I have become more aware of the things that are most important to me

I am being more open about my needs to other people instead of keeping to myself.โ€ (JM)

โ€œThe program has been a big journey of self-discovery, including my strengths and things to grow in, as well as the rules/beliefs I have been adhering to which donโ€™t align with me.

Thank you so much to Tricia and Nigel for having me as part of this program, always touching base and truly listening and understanding to not only myself but every other wonderful participant (CP)

I feel I have a truer understanding of who I am and the path that I need to follow not for others, but for myself. I believe I have become more confident and sure of myself in a variety of areas.

… I am very grateful for the opportunity(CP)

This program helped me to form my direction with career, family and friends, and helped me to really understand who I am and what I want.

The biggest discovery is that everything is fluid, forever changing, and sometimes unexpected. However, this excites meโ€ฆ” (CP)

Testimonial Audio/Video

YP describes her experiences of the Heart-Based Approach…

Realisations, self-care and compassion:

Senses, intuition, feeling vs thinking:

Why this approach:

Why recommend it to others: