Find your Self, Find your Way
in your later years

– Discover how to be fully in your life –

See, feel, do, differently

…enjoy the benefits as you progress!

Chrissie shares her experience of the program:

Are you wanting to:

  • honestly express your feelings and rest-of-life choices?
  • engage in more things that matter to you?
  • improve relationships?
  • pursue your passions?
  • focus less on how others see you?
  • feel more able to meet challenges?
  • improve your self-care?
  • feel part of something?
  • feel more hopeful in your life?
  • feel present and happier?

…then this online program is for you!

It is flexible and fits in with your life and complements any other programs or counselling

The directors, Tricia and Nigel, share more about the program in this video:

This program uniquely guides you to

discover your whole self: to become more aware and awaken your senses.
know you: to discover what matters.
open up to possibilities: to learn, grow and move towards your wants.
explore more of your imagination: to do things that bring joy, and to inspire.
bring more of the ‘real’ you: to express and share your whole self with others.
appreciate you: to engage in more self-care.
acknowledge your unique self: to pursue more of your passions.
live life more fully: engage in activities that bring joy.
notice what you want: to consciously choose where to put your energy.
feel a real sense of freedom: from caring less about how others see you.
leave others the space to be themselves: to discover their stories and passions.
relate to others: to share in their passions.
engage with others honestly: to feel safe and a trust to listen and share openly.
appreciate what you bring: to volunteer your energy where you care.
live heart-based, with your mind in support: 
for the capacity to meet the challenges of life.

What is included?

  • Self-discovery and guided modules (including tools, videos, audios, resources and actions)
  • Access to our weekly drop-in Zoom guiding sessions
  • Supported practice to work on your self
  • Sharing with others via the website and modules

What else can be freely accessed?

  • RTHB Podcasts – insights into heart-based living
  • Online events – practice of expression and connection
  • Community Projects – opportunities to be involved

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Normal price: $75.00

Minimum price: $25.00

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Lifetime Access – pay once, what you can afford, use it forever!

Additional personal support sessions can be purchased

More Information

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Module 1

  • Foundations and themes that underpin the approach
  • Heart-based vs mind-based
  • Wants and not-wants
  • Self-care; what does it really look and feel like?
  • How does deep change really happen?

Module 2

  • Discover your senses and feel your heart
  • Tuning in on a deep and intuitive level

Module 3

  • Discovering the rules, behaviours, habits and patterns that maybe limiting you
  • Discovering your unique self
  • Knowing your wants and not wants
  • Truly expressing your choices

There is a strong body of research behind this program and approach. It includes heart coherence where positive emotions can lead to improved functioning of the whole self (heart, mind, body, spirit). The program is designed to bring positive emotions to you.

The table below provides indicators of self-care and in bold are potential risks:

Factors of Wellness18-6464+
Met guidelines for physical activity (a)17.018.3
Not a current smoker83.092.6
Vaccinated against influenza22.874.6
Did not exceed guidelines for alcohol consumption(b)51.179.9
Met recommendation for fruit and vegetables(c)4.78.2
Normal weight range(d)33.723.5
Did not experience high levels of psychological distress(e)81.986.2
Table 3C.1. Percentage of people who meet selected indicators of healthy lifestyles, by age group, 2017–18
(Older Australians, Health—risk factors – Australian Institute of Health and Welfare (aihw.gov.au))

The info graphic below maybe useful in showing the situation for older Australians (from 2014). According to the Australian Human Rights Commission:

‘…Australians aged 65 years and over contribute almost $39 billion each year in unpaid caring and voluntary work. If the unpaid contribution of those aged 55 to 64 years is included, that figure rises to $74.5 billion per year.[1] Older Australians should be recognised for their role in building strong and healthy communities.
However, many say that negative attitudes about older people can translate into unfair treatment and social exclusion. Being labelled as “too old” or “past their use-by date” means that some miss out on work, training, study and other opportunities.’

According to HeartMath (https://www.heartmath.com):
‘Tuning into your heart’s wisdom creates a profound shift within that helps you approach situations with more emotional balance, compassion, clarity and personal confidence.’

The program also draws upon your lived experience which is your reality and so important to observe and value. This is how you know that things are improving and getting better for you.

Questionnaires and reflections throughout the program – which when coupled with how you feel makes up your personal evidence

The intention is to:

Find your Self:
connect with your heart, feelings, senses and intuition

Find your Way
discover your freedom, purpose, path and passions

In your later years:
become more of your true, caring self, in more moments and situations
Live life to your full

Real Time Heart-Based (RTHB) provides proven programs, community projects and events and support/guidance. It was co-founded by Tricia LaBella and Nigel Stedman, who share a mission to help everyone find their hearts and experience their authentic selves bringing lasting peace and inner contentment. While their journey led them on different challenges and paths, they come together at this stage of their life, with this common vision. Based upon research and universal laws, they bring their lived experiences to share this unique approach for people to find their way.

About Tricia:

‘While I have experience in many industries including counselling, fitness, coaching, education and wellbeing, I feel that it is through many of my personal life situations including a cancer diagnosis in 2006, and life journey as a parent and grand-parent that I have discovered a simple truth about feeling truly happy and successful.’

About Nigel:

‘While I have arrived here with a range of work and professional experience in leadership, governance in organisations and business, it has been through my own personal life and journey as a parent that I have discovered what really matters and makes a difference to my own wellbeing and happiness.’

‘Together, we see how moment by moment heart-based practices and caring choices, although small and simple, play the most significant role in underpinning and creating helpful new directions for ourselves, systems, governments, communities, and industries. Our warm regards Tricia and Nigel’

Testimonial Audio/Video

YP describes her experiences of the program…

Realisations, self-care and compassion:

Senses, intuition, feeling vs thinking:

Why this program:

Why recommend it to others:

Written Testimonials

“The biggest discovery, have been the rules I have been upholding, without realising the limitations I have discovered to listen to my heart and express my feelings.

I liked the dynamic between Nigel and Tricia and I felt heard and supported, with no judgement” (BF)

“I feel more confident to say when I don’t feel I can manage to do something and to take things slower but be more present.

Thank you for your support and wisdom!” (KY)

“I’ve discovered that my priorities need to be adjusted. I feel I’ve gained more insight into why I often feel overwhelmed.

I have very much appreciated and enjoyed the face-to-face sessions with Tricia and Nigel” (PM)

“I have discovered to listen to my heart, express my feelings, do conscious choices in my life. The most important: do what do you want to do with love.

I‘m impressed with the results of this program.” (MR)

“More conscious of panic/racing thoughts. Being aware, practice There is so much out there to learn. Feeling much better, more content and slowing down my mind.

With my heartfelt gratitude to you both, very uplifting for me.” (CC)

More content. Opening my vision for the better, for me. To be more active. To actually do what I feel. Open my horizon to expand my day. To be stronger to make my own decisions.

From when I began the program till now I feel much better in myself.”  (CC)

“Looking at beliefs and rules I have created for myself was very valuable. The program and choices helped me to stay in the present and not think too far ahead in life.

Thanks again, your program really got me moving on things” (MH)

“Clearer focus on my priorities and making efforts to start exploring new ideas and  putting them into place. I am maintaining my fitness and equilibrium and reminder that my passions feed me!

Thank you Tricia and Nigel” (LF)

“Try to work out my limits and become more active in the things that I enjoy and have energy for. I have become more aware of the things that are most important to me

I am being more open about my needs to other people instead of keeping to myself.” (JM)

“The program has been a big journey of self-discovery, including my strengths and things to grow in, as well as the rules/beliefs I have been adhering to which don’t align with me.

Thank you so much to Tricia and Nigel for having me as part of this program, always touching base and truly listening and understanding to not only myself but every other wonderful participant (CP)

I feel I have a truer understanding of who I am and the path that I need to follow not for others, but for myself. I believe I have become more confident and sure of myself in a variety of areas.

… I am very grateful for the opportunity(CP)

This program helped me to form my direction with career, family and friends, and helped me to really understand who I am and what I want.

The biggest discovery is that everything is fluid, forever changing, and sometimes unexpected. However, this excites me…” (CP)